Robert "Dugan" Bernard Weber

Robert “Dugan” Bernard Weber, age 90, passed away peacefully on March 15, 2026, in his loving home. He was born on February 20, 1936, in Santa Cruz, California, the youngest of a large family, raised during the Great Depression. He is survived by his wife of 57 years, Margaret; his two sons, daughter, and son-in-law; and his four grandchildren, along with countless cousins, nieces, and nephews who were all touched by his life, strength, and kindness.

Robert lived a life rooted in faith, service, and purpose. At just 14 years old, he answered a calling to serve and entered the seminary, later becoming a Redemptorist Catholic priest. His work reflected his deep compassion for others—he was on the forefront of social outreach, building basketball courts and hosting midnight basketball games for youth in the Bronx, giving them a safe place, guidance, and hope. He earned his Master’s Degree from Fordham University and continued teaching while pursuing his doctorate in Divinity and Sociology. During Vatican II, a time of transformation within the Catholic Church, Robert felt called to a different path when he met the love of his life, Margaret, and together they built a beautiful life centered on faith, family, and service.

They made their home and put down roots in Paso Robles, CA, where Robert began his work with the California Youth Authority, not only teaching but also creating a forestry program that gave young people skills, purpose, and direction. After retiring, he continued his calling to serve others by becoming a Special Education teacher in Hollister, working with Severely Emotionally Disturbed children—meeting each one with patience, dignity, and an unwavering belief in their potential.

Robert, known as “Dugan”—a nickname inspired by a boxer—was a steady, strong presence and the true anchor of the Weber family. He took immense pride in his children and grandchildren: One of his greatest gifts was his ability to love unconditionally. He stood faithfully beside both of his sons—guiding one through addiction into recovery and a renewed life, while ensuring his other son, a 100% disabled veteran who served in war, was supported with the care, resources, and unwavering love he needed after his service. He took great pride in how independent his daughter was, the beautiful family she built with her husband, and the successful real estate business she built. In his later years of retirement, his world centered around his four grandchildren. His days were filled with love, laughter, and time spent with them. Each of them brought him immense joy and pride, and he loved them deeply. He was incredibly proud of who they were and who they were becoming, and each held a special place in his heart. His presence was constant, his love unwavering, and his devotion to his family never faltered. 

Outside of his work and devotion to family, Dugan truly embraced life. He loved to cook, tell stories, and bring people together. Whether it was camping, taking road trips, or simply spending time with family and friends, those moments meant everything to him. He had a deep love and knowledge of gardening and a true passion for the outdoors—especially the sequoias and redwoods. He especially looked forward to his annual summer camping trips with his wife, sons, and daughter. He could often be found enjoying a cigar with a good book in hand—he was rarely without something to read. He cherished playing chess, especially with his son, nephew, and grandson. He was known for his quick wit, long conversations, and unforgettable stories. Dugan was the last surviving sibling, a living connection to a generation defined by resilience, faith, and perseverance. He was deeply social, knew countless people, and touched many lives through his kindness, generosity, and willingness to give back. He volunteered often and lived a life of true service to others. His life was a testament to quiet strength, deep faith, and a servant’s heart. He had the biggest smile and best laugh. 

Dugan was patient and kind—a wonderful husband, father, grandfather, and friend. He was truly one of a kind, carrying himself with integrity, grace, and love. He taught us to lead with compassion, kindness, and equality. He lived his life and raised his children and grandchildren to ensure those values would live on through them—and through the generations that follow.

Though he is no longer with us, we find comfort in knowing he is at peace, reunited with those who went before him, and resting in God’s eternal grace. 

The love and kindness he shared throughout his life will echo for eternity.

We love you so much. 

Flowers cannot be sent in advance to the church or the burial; however, if you plan to attend, you are welcome to bring flowers to be placed at his burial site on the day of the services.